Dads are hot. They work hard. They help with the kids (more than we allow to be celebrated) but often what they hear from us are the things we would like to have or the places we wish they would take us. They might even detail the inside of our sticky car, by hand, after we refuse. They don’t ask what we got at Target, every time, anymore. They let us make our mistakes. They forgive. They love us, somehow, more.

Father’s Day is our chance to show them that we absolutely see all of it. We know we are lucky — and we do want our men to have the things they wish for.

This year we will celebrate by putting a few of these scoop picks into motion:

How do they stay so fly? Let’s keep our Mr. Big’s vibe going and tell them this is only for them: Emerson Joseph for a good trim.

Need all the sophisticated things for your man? Onward Reserve has your curated gifts ready. Too many choices? Never.

They all wish they could shave that one last stroke off their handicap. Ballantyne Golf Academy can make that happen.

Put it in ink! Encourage your sweetie to get that tattoo. Maybe it’s the kids’ initials. Maybe it’s yours. As long as it’s not barbed wire, make him an appointment with Ace Custom Tattoo. Ink it.

Visit Tinder Box and show him what the V in love means with the only cigar cutter a man needs in his life. It’s all about the perfect V.

Can you say date night? Top Golf pairs premium food with premium experience. And we all can appreciate a good performance.

Get him tickets now for this July matchup: International Champions Cup: Arsenal v AS Roma at Bank of America Stadium. There’s a little something for us all at this one.

Photo: Pho @ Noda

Pho and Banh Mi together under one roof? One of those meant-to-be, match-made-in-stomach situations. Take your other half to [email protected]. Delicous.

Dare to try something new …They might never admit it but they all need some Lulu shorts.

Show him what’s Beyond the Fountain: The Duke Mansion Home and Garden Tour. Refined. Stately. Book a room at this Bed & Breakfast even if you can’t make the tour. One with a porch.

Buy him a bottle. Mellowed in small batches right here in Charlotte, Doc Porters Rye whiskey comes into its own faster. And of course, it’s all about timing with anything this spectacular.

Is he man enough? Of course he is. The men’s facial at Le Petit Spa keeps him beautiful. Beard or no beard.

Does he run for carbs? Send him on his way at the upcoming Brew Dash at the U.S. National Whitewater Center. Craft beer and it’s beautiful. What else could he want?

Want to really blow his mind? Hand him reservations (or permission) for a guys’ weekend golf trip to Kiawah’s Ocean Course. Rockstar wife status amongst his friends is priceless.

Alright. Let’s go ladies… make it happen!