Fashion

What to Wear (Buy Her) for the Sadie Hawkins Dance.

by Susu | January 28, 2014

So, from the time they are six through some point in high school, the conversations about “appropriate party attire” just circle around endlessly.  What starts out as a cute discussion about whether one should wear a recital outfit or princess pj’s to “school” quickly devolves into why 4 inch heels just won’t work as you walk across the stage,  your hemline can’t skim your panties, and wearing a Herve Leger bandage dress knock-off to the middle school dance won’t fly, at least not with anyone out of puberty.

Not to mention the concept of what is appropriate to SPEND on a dress that won’t fit in 6 months – half the time you are so relieved to have found something you both finally love, with shoes she can walk in – and then take off the minute she enters the dance – you are willing to go way beyond your “limit.”  Sigh.

Let’s face it, even for a mother / daughter team that loves to shop and agrees on the playbook, finding a cute, suitable dress for a dance is a challenge.  To help with this dilemma, we asked for ideas from few of our favorite boutiques who carry “younger” styles.  While we can’t help out with the Who Is Asking Whom drama, we can offer a little assistance on The Dress.

THE CHEEKY BEAN

BCBGeneration dress with Kendra Scott pendant necklace

BCBGeneration dress with Kendra Scott pendant necklace

BCBGeneration dress & metallic clutch  and Towne and Reese necklace

BCBGeneration dress & metallic clutch and Towne and Reese necklace

Fable dress with Kendra Scott necklace

Fable dress with Kendra Scott necklace

BB Dakota dress with Towne and Reese necklace

BB Dakota dress with Towne and Reese necklace

Coral MM Couture dress with Kendra Scott pendant and dainty druzie

Coral MM Couture dress with Kendra Scott pendant and dainty druzie

LUNA PHILLIPS PLACE

school in the front, party in the back from LUNA

school in the front, party in the back from LUNA

THE BOULEVARD AT SOUTH END

Fur trimmed dress – now $44 — at The Boulevard at South End.

Red and black faux leather details - now $28 — at The Boulevard at South End.

Red and black faux leather details – now $28 — at The Boulevard at South End.

Black halter dress with embroidered detail now $67 — at The Boulevard at South End

Black halter dress with embroidered detail now $67 — at The Boulevard at South End

Golden twinkle strapless dress - now $73 — at The Boulevard at South End

Golden twinkle strapless dress – now $73 — at The Boulevard at South End

Bronze goddess dress - now $52 — at The Boulevard at South End

Bronze goddess dress – now $52 — at The Boulevard at South End

SCOUT & MOLLY’SNew Spring Color Wallets

Scout & Molly's  cotton dress from Lauren Moshi $116.00

Scout & Molly’s cotton dress from Lauren Moshi $116.00

Scout & Molly's  Black and white jersey dress from Jack $68.00. Mere necklace $84.00

Scout & Molly’s Black and white jersey dress from Jack $68.00. Mere necklace $84.00

Scout & Molly's Minkpink ponte fit and flare dress $88.00

Scout & Molly’s Minkpink ponte fit and flare dress $88.00

Scout & Molly's  Glam silk split sleeve dress $80.00

Scout & Molly’s Glam silk split sleeve dress $80.00

THE PINK HANGER

THE PINK HANGERS French Connection Dress- $268 Necklace- $32

THE PINK HANGERS French Connection Dress- $268 Necklace- $32

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