Everyone has a friend who’s the hostess with the most-ess. Whether it’s a party or a weekend visit, it’s a good gesture (and proper etiquette) to come armed with a hostess gift. It doesn’t have to be fancy, but a small token of appreciation is always a nice way to say thank you for the hospitality. Bonus points if you wrap it — or at least stick it in a cute gift bag.
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Let’s talk about what you shouldn’t bring. There are a few faux pas to keep in mind when selecting a hostess gift. For one, don’t bring food unless you’re asked, unless the food is something like a box of chocolates that can be enjoyed later. And if you bring wine, don’t expect it to be served that night — your host may already have chosen the wine for the evening. If the party is very fancy, you don’t need to bring a gift at all (especially if you don’t know the host well).
A bottle of wine and flowers are always nice ideas in a pinch, but we think you can be more thoughtful than that. Whatever you bring, the gift should be sincere and personal. We picked out a few gift ideas from local boutiques that will show any host just how much you appreciate them.
CHARLOTTE’S INC.

Cutting Board- $66.00, Cashmere throw- $356.00, Gold Clam Shell- $115.00. Flower candle-$38.00, and Aromatique Candles- $25.00, Winner stopper,- $14.00, Shell frame- $60.00, Napkins- $6.00

Mariposa Small Bowl and Oval Server, $44.00, $129.00, Dog bowl- $34.00, Artichoke candles-$16.00, Mariposa Salad Servers- $44.00, Jayes guest towel holder- $33.00, Guest Towels- $7.50, Archipelago Hand soap and lotion- $15.00, $26.00

Hermes Boxes- $15.00 and $130.00, Hermes tray- $150.00, Jayes Tissue cover and Catchall- $30.00, $32.00, Bar set- $125.00, Decanter- $78.00, Monogram Trashcan- $160.00, short glasses and wine glasses- $23.00, $25.00
THREE FRENCH HENS

Bertie County Roasted Peanuts: $10.95 for a 32-oz. bag.

Fresh Milk Shea Butter lotions, soaps, powder: $1.25 to $6.95

Lucite cocktail napkin/guest towel holders with napkins

Keep drinks cold without diluting with ice.

SOULinks, a summer read by local author Joan Wright
COPPER PENNY

PJ Salvage sleep mask: $20

LAFCO candles: $62
DOLL

Malibu Candles in flavors Vanilla Earth and Vanilla Nectar: $32
Bella & Olive soaps in Clove & Tangerine and Activated Charcoal: $7

Use Uwharrie products: $10-$16
KK BLOOM

ban.do, hey girl hey greeting card set: $18 — BUY NOW

ban.do, sip sip tumbler with straw $14 — BUY NOW

ban.do, sip sip tumbler with straw: $14 — BUY NOW

ban.do, girl talk headband: $15 — BUY NOW

ban.do, it’s the drinks talking coasters: $15 — BUY NOW

ban.do, love potion flask: $25 — BUY NOW
NEIMAN MARCUS

Jonathan Adler, Brass Tic Tac Toe Set: $195.00 — BUY NOW

Sugarfina, 3-Piece Vice Collection Bento Box: $28.00

Sugarfina 3-Piece But First, Cocktails Bento Box $28.00

Neiman Marcus, Shake It Up Gift Set: $40.00

Michael Aram, Gold Orchid Easel Frame, $150.00 — BUY NOW
THE PINK HANGER

Bath Soaks by Herbivore Botanicals: $21

Scarves: $39

Voluspa Candles in Mokara: $30, Casa Pacifica $25, Laguna $19

Pink Citron Candle by Voluspa Candles: $29